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Pleasant words promote instruction. Proverbs 16:21
As a parent of young golfers it has been an interesting education for me to learn what it would take to get them to 'want' to play. When I first exposed them to golf I went out of my way to get them to 'do golf properly'.
"No you cannot stand there!"
"There's no fooling around out here!"
"Don't do that!"
I am thankful now that for a few years I failed miserably at nurturing any passion for golf in them. I am thankful because I am of the opinion that there are two ways to learn something; by seeing the right way to do it and the wrong way to do it! Eventually my boys did not want anything to do with golf. It had become clear that I was going about things the wrong way. I was trying to get them to play golf 'too correctly'.
I became crazy about golf because I love the game. In my 'infinite wisdom' I decided, after a year break, to try to get my young golfers to love the game. A novel approach! I went out of my way to not push and to make it as fun as anything they did. They enjoyed snacks and sodas while playing, they drove the cart (while in my lap with me controlling the pedals!), they became experts at the Happy Gilmore swing and above all else, experts at laughing on the course. We celebrated the great holes and forgot the rest. Golf was fun and I even found myself having a better time! There were no scorecards, few rules and no pressure.
I have come to the conclusion that in order to get a spouse, friend, son, daughter, brother, aunt or grandparent to enjoy the game and to want to play of their own accord you must give them a reason to love the game. And when they love the game they will come back often enough to learn the rules and etiquette and respect that most of us seasoned golfers already embrace.
- Put FUN at the top of the list of priorites when practicing or playing. If the driver is a favorite, then the driver it shall be - from everywhere!
- No rules, just right! (Well maybe a few basic rules like; there must be one Happy Gilmore every three holes!)
- When they are done - leave! Nine or eighteen holes is not a prerequisite for enjoyment. Maybe for us, but not for a new golfer.
- Play or practice on their terms. Let them ask to be taken to the course.
The other day my youngest son was hitting his 'gold' golf ball up and down the eighteenth fairway at 7:30am barefooted. He followed that up with several rounds of 'yard golf' with his friends (Yes, the divots are bad!) and at 7:30 at night he asked me if would take him to the range to 'whack balls'. I smiled to myself because I knew I must be doing something right!
Congratulations to Berkeley Hall student Tim Tang on winning the Charleston City Amateur by seven strokes and a -17 total (66-66-67) Well done Tim and we look for big things from you in the future!


For many years I have believed that the irons are struck with a descending blow, the fairway woods and hybrids are swept off the ground and the driver is hit with a slightly upward hit. 


I watched the broadcast from Quail Hollow yesterday and was shocked at what I saw; these golfers were playing some of the hardest holes I have ever seen with 9-irons and wedges for their approaches. I have been to this event and the 



This is the first in a four part series looking at the three primary factors that pertain to a solid impact position. They are:
The Spring issue of Golf Digest/Index magazine just came out and ranked the top 75 practice facilities in the USA. When I first started teaching at Berkeley Hall in April 2001 I contacted Golf Digest asking them to do a piece on on the premier practice grounds in the country. They rank everything else in golf, from courses, to instructors, to golf balls, why not an integral part of any golf operation - the practice area!
Congratulations to Angel Cabrera on winning the Masters and his second major. It's true what they say about the Masters, "It all comes down to the back nine!" The difference this year was that it all came down to the final two holes. Seventeen and eighteen favor a straight or left to right ball flight and I believe that really made all the difference in the outcome. The major players were Cabrera, Perry, Campbell and Mickelson. Cabrera was fading the ball comfortably all day, Perry and Campbell are known drawers of the ball and Lefty had his fade working.
Mickelson attempted three draws on the back nine, all with poor results - tee ball @ 11 (trees), tee ball @ 12 (water) and tee ball @ 18 (bunker). Every other tee shot on the back nine played into his fade perfectly.